Wensha Spa-scapade ;-p

This is a good start of the year for me and my friends. We went to a spa in Pasay City, just within the CCP Complex. It is called Wensha Spa. We were eight to avail of the P580 package, which includes a free shabu-shabu meal, bottomless iced tea or orange juice, use of jacuzzi, sauna and steam baths, shower room and digital lockers, and a Swedish whole body massage.

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We also had our dinner at the spa right after our massage session. In fairness, the food was great! I couldn't resist to have a taste of their sizzling tuna, calamares, sizzling pork and spare ribs. Yummy! And Oh, how I love the Japanese/Korean/Chinese-inspired ambience of this haven.

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Thanks to my Superfriend Edel for introducing Wensha Spa to me!

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It's New Year!

Blog systems upgrade... Sorry for the inconvenience. Please bear with me.

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It's Worth the Sacrifice!

The much-awaited modern dance contest for the OP Christmas Party has come. And guess what? We won first place. We were so glad to see those bunches of people watching and cheering for us. We weren't after the price, we just did it for fun and to entertain the audience. Though all groups performed well, one has to excel and that's us! Congrats to Lynnie, Lorna, Shiena, Adelia and Me. Hehe! I also extend my congratulations to the GGAO and MRO groups for winning the second and third places, respectively ;-)

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The Changed Yobs

On the contrary, I am still disheartened by the fact that Y has forgotten to (or intended not to) greet me on my birthday. I never thought that of all people, he would miss to call, or even text, me on my special day. Yes, it is not a big deal but it is important to me. Since then, because of what he did (or better, because of what he did not do), I set my mind that if he remains like that - taking me for granted as his "BESTFRIEND" - it is better for me to not exert much effort in keeping the friendship alive. If he's busy, let him be... forever.
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It just hurts that after all that we've been and gone through, we are now consciously taking separate ways towards the ending of our friendship. I just hope for the better - for him, for me, and for both of us. Indeed, some good things never last.

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Update!

I've been very busy this month, practicing Christmas songs with the OP Chorale for our Yuletide caroling activities in and out of OP. I have been so pre-occupied with my extra-curricular activities I almost have forgotten to give time to some of my office works (referrals). Aside from singing, I have been busy with dancing, too. We've been practicing our piece for the modern dance contest which will be held tomorrow, December 21, in our Malacañang Christmas party. It has been one straight week of practice - all sweats and muscle pains! Good thing is, I met new acquiantances who happen to be my co-dance members. Lynnie, Lorna and Shiena are kind of friendly, accomodating and warm. Adel, one of my closest friends in the office, joined us too.

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Staying Happy @ 26

Did I say I am 26? Oh my... I am getting older...

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December is really my happiest month. Aside from spending Christmas with family and friends, December is also a time to celebrate life; my birthday is on the 7th.

December 5: I had dinner with my cousin/bestfriend, Julie Ann, at Water Village in Bacoor, Cavite. We enjoyed our meal of grilled prawns with butter lemon sauce, sizzling squid, kangkong with bagoong, rice and iced tea. We also had chocolates (my favorite! eau la la!) as dessert. It was still early so we watched "Pasukob" at SM Bacoor's silverscreen. Funny indeed!

December 7: Mommy, Nanay and Tatay had bonding moments at 168 Mall, Divisoria. After the tiring "hanapan" all over the place, Mom and I found Nanay and Tatay, at last. It was indeed an adventure for me to find a sweet couple in a sea of a thousand faces craving for Christmas bargains and sales. We had merienda at "Chopsticks and Spoons" and ordered pansit guisado, takuyaki, special halo-halo with avocado-flavored ice cream on top, and iced tea. After eating, we had a little chitchat about our loved-ones (Yes, including you guys out there! *I could imagine my two pretty ates flopping their ears in flattery because we're missing them so much!*). Then, we parted ways: Nanay and Tatay going home, and Mom and me shopping for some Christmas presents. Of course, I was not able to take pictures of this happening. When you're in Divisoria, it's not advisable to bring and display your cellphones as snatchers and pocketpickers are like vultures sitting around the corner waiting for their next victims.

December 8, Day: After nosebleeding while taking our final exam in PA-BFA, Lydz and I went malling at Robinson's Place-Ermita. We had lunch at Chaikofi, one of my newest favorites. Lydz grumbled on a Dutch chicken while I chose to have Chai rice. Hmmmm... Yum-yum! Too bad I had to unzip my jeans' already so that I could breathe. Haha! Nice one! Next agenda, window shopping. We saw a cutie cute cute piggy wiggy on one of the stalls and suprised that I was, my good friend Lydz bought it for me. I named the stuffed toy after "Kao," Ken Zhu's character in the scenic and romantic movie, "Batanes," which we opted to see to kill time. I fell in love with Batanes; it complements the beauty and heartaches of love in general with its panoramic landscape and raging waves. Batanes is a wonderful place but the ending of the movie didn't give justice to it. Though the ending didn't satisfy us, the fact that Ken Zhu is such a manly creature made our night. Roar!

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December 8-9, Night: I met with my former high school classmates. This served as our get-together party. It was supposed to be an all day-all night swimming getaway somewhere in Laguna, Batangas or Bulacan, but since not most of us were available to stay overnight (because of conflict with family and work obligations), we just came up with the common decision of going to Malate. We had dinner at Kenny Roger's then reserved a room for 10 at Music 21. When the clock striked 12am, Dianne and Irene had to go. The rest of the gang transferred to another place, Cart Noodles - a not-so-nice place to stay for asthmatics. Due to its crowdy and smoky ambience, we hopped to Decajon, facing the Manila Bay. More San Mig Light please... And kindly add pork sisig, too.

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It was a misty dawn of laughters, jokes and stories of our high school life. Also talking about past issues on love, friendship and competition, we consensusly came up with a wish that someday, our class would again be united. When the sun shone on us and started to brighten the surrounding, we headed to Chowking for a hot and stomach-warming noodle soup and coffee. Recharged and refilled, we separated ways and looked for our own way home, leading me and Noel on board an aircon bus bound to Cavite. We parted ways in Robinson's Pala-pala.

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December 10 was a day for myself. I spent my whole day in a salon and had my hair rebonded. From 10AM to 6PM, all I did was sit, read magazines and sometimes talk with my hair specialist. At first, I was excited about the outcome only to discover that I need to undergo my second treatment next year, January 2008. The moral of the story: "Kapag nagkuripot ka, hindi talaga maganda ang resulta." Haha! Do I have to mention the name of the salon here? No need. My birthday resolution: forgive and then forget. At least, I learned my lesson.

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Overall, I am very happy and contented. With special people who love me so much, there is nothing more to wish for =) Thanks, God, for the 25 fruitful years of my life, and for giving me another year to honor your greatness!

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Reflecting On...

I went to church with Bestfriend A yesterday. We've lost contact for a while since we're both busy - I, with my career and she, with her family life. She just discovered two months ago that her hubby, who works as a waiter in a cruise ship, has another woman. I never imagined that this would happen to their marriage as I am a living witness to their love story.

After the mass, we proceeded to McDonald's for breakfast and talked about her problem. It was a long and insightful talk. I let her speak, I just listened . But I also shared some pieces of advice in between her lines.

The most touching lines that she said were, "I'm still hoping that someday he'll come back to me and say sorry. I still love him, and I know he does, too. All we need is space, for us to pick up the broken pieces. Time heals all wounds," and also this, "Money problems? There are so many easy ways to resolve them. But heartaches? This is the hardest. We cannot prevent it from hurting. I almost died."

*Sigh* Been there, done that. Hehe.

Throughout the conversation, she also asked about my lovelife. I told her, "Still no boyfriend but I'm inspired." I stressed that I do not consider I'm malas when it comes to relationship simply because in each failed relationship that I had, I learned many lessons. Wanna fish some details? Here:

LESSONS THAT I LEARNED FROM MY EX'S
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- You should fight for the things that makes you happy.
- You should fight for love.
- Love is not finding a perfect person, but seeing an imperfect person perfectly.
- Love the people that your "love" loves.
- Open communication is important to save a relationship.
- Jealousy is a sign of insecurity.
- A promise is a promise.
- Allocate quality time for the relationship and for him.
- Do recreational activities together such as gardening, carpentry, cooking, eating, playing your favorite sports, watching tv and movies, dancing, singing, fishing, going to the market, malling, amusement rides, swimming, etc.
- First love never dies (I think so).
- Ex-lovers can still be good friends.

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- Young love, sweet love.
- Not all that he says are true.
- Love letters and love songs can be deceiving.
- Without him, high school life would never be the same.
- Even if you're the smartest of all, you're still stupid when it involves the heart.

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- Love constitutes trust and honesty.
- There is a thin line between love and lust, learn to distinguish which is which.
- Be punctual always - because time is gold.
- When you say sorry, mean it.
- When you love someone, show it.
- Do not listen to what others tell you, what's important is you love each other.
- Gossips, sometimes, are true. Be investigative!

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- All is fair in love.
- Love is a game, never ever cheat.
- When you're not happy anymore, quit.
- Do not give him false hopes.
- Entering a relationship is as easy as 1-2-3, getting out is another story.

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- Silence does not always mean "yes".
- You cannot have all the things that you want. Sometimes, what you wish for is not really meant for you.
- Love is not blind - it sees more, not less. But because it sees more, it is willing to see less.
- Misunderstandings should not be followed by confrontations. Stop, look and listen. When negative emotions have already subside, talk about it but avoid blaming.
- Listen to what others say. More often than not, they know better.
- Friends know best.
- Before you say "Sorry," weigh things first. Who was wrong? Who sinned? Is making an apology worthit? Is he/Am I ready to reconcile?
- Acceptance is important.
- If he does not introduce you to his friends and family, question why.
- Forgive and forget.
- Building friendship with an ex takes time. Don't rush, it might cause more damages.

I do not have regrets at all. I am just human, not perfect... And behind this imperfection lies a heart that loved deeply.

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Giving Some Love =)

I would like to thank my dearest Auntie Dada for giving me my advanced birthday gift: A pair of pink, flat Havaianas. Lots of kisses, KC!

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I would also want to express my warmest gratitude to the Vegan Prince for the personalized shirt that he sent me. I'm so pretty in pink! The Vegan Prince really rocks!

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Trivia: The shirt and the slippers do look good together! I have already worn them in school, with my skinny jeans... The outfit is nice!

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New Career #2

Philippine economy, we have to admit, is indeed worsening through the years. Prices of commodities and transportation fares keep on hiking, while salaries, stagnant. My basic monthly income, though above minimum wage and higher than of ordinary government employees', is still not enough to support my needs and luxuries.

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I want to earn more. And I am speaking of dollar, euro, pound or yen here. We are a small family of three, making me the only child, but during these trying times when demand is greater than supply, I really have to do the move, even it would break my heart to leave my family for a while.

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I want to work abroad. Who don't? There are some, but most Filipinos are now learning to accept the reality that in the Philippines, progress is curbed by so many factors: economic downfalls, political conflicts, religious and ethnic disputes, and a lot more. Maybe that is why more and more of our countrymen are leaving; it is supposedly an escape FROM a miserable or inadequate life TO a believed-to-be better paradise FOR a more promising and brighter future.

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I want something different. I am used to do the same things again and again. Sometimes, it's challenging, sometimes it's tiring. The OP is such a perfect workplace, being the highest and most prestigious office in the country. However, I do not want to stay here all my life. In due time, I know I will be able to temporarily get out of my comfort zone. I heard one time from someone (forgot her name -sorry!), "Never stay in a place that makes you feel so comfortable. You always have to look for challenges." Very well said.

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I want to help. Not just for monetary reasons, I also want to give care and extend health assistance to the sick and needy, particularly the elderly and children with special needs. Psychic rewards are priceless.

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So, have I mentioned my new career now? Not yet? I enrolled at St. Augustine School of Nursing; not as a nursing student but as a professional caregiving student. People may question why this course, and I guess, being a professional caregiver, though somehow a misfit to my earned degree, would serve as a ticket to my journey to success and self-fulfillment. I do not plan to be a cg forever, it would just be a stepping stone.

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Recently, I am enjoying my night classes everyday from 6-9pm and 8am-5pm every Saturday. I am learning so many things from my teachers and classmates, especially when we are having interactive discussions of health and medical concerns. Since the class is mostly composed of working professionals from PCSO, DPWH, OP, St. Luke's and other medical clinics, a travel agency, some educational institutions, private companies, etc., special considerations given to us by the school are most welcome and highly requested.

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New Career #1

Hello, blogmates and friends! I'm back! After dying inside, I was reborn. It's been a while since I blogged; for unknown reasons, depression ate me. Now, enough with the emo modes. Let's face life, let's all be happy. What am I up to right now? I prefer to share with you one of the two new careers I am trying to master. Master? Haha! Yeah, right! Good luck to me!

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Last October 16, I joined in a group that I never thought I would qualify - the OP Chorale, our office's choir. Would you believe that? You know, I was not born a singer. I still remember way back in first year high school when my music teacher (Mrs. Carmelita Babao) required us to sing INDIVIDUALLY in front of the class. I was just beginning a few lines when she said, "ok, sit down," with a sense of dissatisfaction on her face. All I could do was smile shyly at her and grin at my classmates who were also naughtily smiling back at me.

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What made me join? Actually, none. I just want to try it out and check if I can still develop my talent in singing, hoping it's not too late. The musical director assessed my voice and categorized me as an alto. Good for me because I never dreamed of being a soprano anyway. We practice thrice a week and participate every Monday morning during OP flag ceremonies, holy masses and other presentations.

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Based on my personal assessment, I am learning. And the unfamiliar musical terms and words that I heard before are somehow clear to me now: falsetto, legato, vibrato, staccato, quartet, head tone, nasal voice, etc. Well, generally, I am loving it really!

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"If you cannot excel in talent, triumph with effort," I strongly believe.

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Sorry for the Inconvenience

Guys, I wouldn't be able to blog for the next few days or weeks because I am going through depression. I can't tell what causes my anxiety because I really don't know why. I just feel that I am at the lowest point of my mid-20's life. I guess everyone has and will experience it so let me enjoy, or suffer, the feeling :-(

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Advance Happy Halloween!

All Saints and Souls' Day are fast approaching. Someone sent me a halloween treat. Thanks, Macy!

Now, I'm passing this on to Adel, Edel, Redlan, Lionheart and Ann. May you have a meaningful holiday!

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Death and Life

Last night, I went to a friend’s father’s wake. He died of a heart attack at the age of 56. My condolences to the Docor family. As I traveled home, I reflected on things that happened during my 25 years in this world. I became aware and afraid of dying. I have done so many things but have not done enough to live my purpose. And to admit the truth, I have not realized yet the true meaning of my existence.

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“Life is too short,” a song exclaims. And we can never tell when it will end. God has plans for us, including death. We cannot tell the precise moment when, where and how we are going to die… but we can make good use of the remaining time. How?

By doing simple things that would make others feel loved and appreciated, we can transform our lives into a meaningful existence. A warm pat on the shoulder, a simple “I love you,” a friendly hug, or even a simple smile is enough to touch someone's life, making him or her feel important, too, in yours.

Time is gold – plain but true. We can never bring back the time wasted but we can enrich what lies at present – our relationship with family, friends, community and of course, with God. I should have done this before, but I am glad I still have time.

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Tired, Am I?

It is only Tuesday and I feel exhausted already. No matter how much I try to finish all the message drafts, e-mails, referrals, provincial appreciation letters, and other forms of correspondence assigned to me, I just couldn't. Plus these property custodian's tasks that I have to settle before it becomes too late. Requests for table repainting, ekthaterms, print cartridges, all office equipment accountabilities and alI. It's just so tiring, you know. It's draining me.

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I am just human, not a robot. So please bear with me. I just have to let this feeling out.

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Loyalty and Honesty

"Mas masarap ang bawal," people say. And I tried it myself, not just once, but for so many times already.

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When I was 6, Mom said I couldn't play outside unless I take my afternoon nap. Then I would sneak out from the room and run away as far as where I can be with my playmates without Mother knowing. When I was 11, I had a 9pm-curfew. I don't know why but I liked the feeling of climbing over the fence (because Mom locks the gate when I come home beyond time) and entering the kitchen door on silent tiptoes. When I was 18, I was prohibited to see my then boyfriend for some [secret] reasons. But since love conquers all, I learned to weave alibis and disobey my parents' rules.

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I admit that there were chapters in my life that I've been bad [but not as bad as you think] and I don't feel sorry about these because I believe that "there are no regrets in life, just lessons."

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Doing the "DON'Ts" give us a thrilling and exciting feeling. But let us always put into mind that we have responsibilities to take upon doing such acts. Beyond physical punishments such as spankings and scoldings, we should be ready to face our conscience. The self, more than whoever and whatever, is our worst prosecutor, and God, on the other side, the fair judge.

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The best lessons in life are learned from personal experiences. Consider LOYALTY and HONESTY as one of them.

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Which Fitness Activity Should I Pursue?

I have been planning to take up any fitness lessons for almost three months now for health and weight management purposes. I have tried yoga once and am still thinking if I should continue attending my sessions in Sikatuna Village, Q.C. My colleague, Adel, seemed to lose enthusiasm to go on with it, so maybe I'll look for other recommended near-the-house yoga centers for me to avoid stressful traffic jams and transportation expenses.

So here are my major options: swimming, muay thai, belly dancing and still, yoga. I found, through the net, a more convenient yoga center in Alabang and Las Piñas (P300/session). Pertaining to muay thai, oh i so so love to join the Philippine Team but how? I saw a friendster account of muay thai professionals offering their excellent and world-class training service for only P250/session. Albert Lozada, the most prominent swimming school in the country, trains adults for P2,700 per course and that takes 8 sessions of 1-hour class each in Metropolis Alabang Mall Resort - very convenient! For P350/session, belly dancing, with international belly dancers/trainers Kat Fonacier and Lala Ilao-Dinglasan, is just a few minute walk to Baila! Dance Studio in Filinvest, Alabang.

Waaahh! I just can't get enough of this urge! I need to find a perfect fitness activity for me. And, of course, a perfect fitness buddy to enrol with me! Anyone?

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MUST READ! Anne's Frank Diary

I can't remember when I started reading it, but I just finished yesterday the book, "The Diary of a Young Girl," written by Anne Frank. It is really a nice book to read and I can't remember a moment I got bored with it. At the age of 13-15 years old, Anne Frank was a good writer indeed. To give you some ideas of what the story all about, here is the Book Flap:

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Anne Frank's The Diary of a Young Girl is among the most enduring documents of the twentieth century. Since its publication in 1947, it has been read by tens of millions of people all over the world. It remains a beloved and deeply admired testament to the indestructable nature of the human spirit.

Restore in this Definitive Edition are diary entries that had been omitted from the original edition. These passages, which constitute 30 percent more material, reinforce the fact that Anne was first and foremost a teenage girl, not a remote and flawless symbol. She fretted about, and tried to copie with, her own emerging sexuality. Like many young girls, she often found herself in disagreement with her mother. And like any teenager, she veered between the carefree nature of a child and the full-fledged sorrow of an adult. Anne emerges more human, more vulnerable, and more vital than ever.

Anne Frank and her family, fleeing the horrors of Nazi occupation, hid in the back of an Amsterdam warehouse for two years. She was thirteen when the family went into the Secret Annex, and in these pages she grows to be a young woman and a wise observer of human nature as well. With unusual insight, she reveals the relations between eight people living under extraordinary conditions, facing hunger, the ever-present threat of discovery and death, complete estrangement from the outside world, and above all, the boredom, the petty misunderstandings,
and the frustrations of living under such unbearable strain, in such confined quarters.

A timely story rediscovered by each new generation, The Diary of a Young Girl stands without peer. For both young readers and adults it continues to bring to life this young woman, who for a time survived the worst horror of the modern world had seen -- and who remained triumphantly and heartbreakingly human throughout her ordeal. For those who know and love Anne Frank, The Definitive Edition is a chance to discover her anew. For readers who have not yet encountered her, this is the edition to cherish.

ANNE FRANK was born on June 12, 1929. She died while imprisoned at Bergen-Belsen, three months short of her sixteenth birthday. OTTO H. FRANK was the only member of his immediate framily to survive the Holocaust. He died in 1980. MIRJAM PRESSLER is a popular writer of books for young adults. She lives in Germany.

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I just can't imagine how the eight members of the Secret Annex survived from all the hungers, conflicts and terrors for two years during the Nazi government. And when the liberation of Holland was nearly to be put into reality, someone tipped the Germans that there were some Jews hiding in that warehouse. They were all arrested and separately transferred to different concentration camps - except Mr. Frank. The end saddened me because Anne died, but I know that her stay in the Annex, with her father, mother, sister Margot, Mr. Dussel, Mr. and Mrs. van Daan and of course, Peter, showed her the purpose and meaning of her existence.

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Why I Keep Coming Back to Baguio?

Baguio Cathedral

After Sap & Pia's Wedding Ceremonies

Green Valley Clubhouse

Reception Venue

May nagsi-swimming pa kaya sa pool na'to?

Ang lamig na kaya!

Sizzling Plate Baguio

Dinner with the ICTO Peeps

Ice Cream w/ Albie along Session Road

Mocha sa akin, Vanilla kay Albie

Tonsilitis ang kinalabasan... It hurts, you know!Beach Front, Nevada

After-the-Wedding Party

Long Island Tea: Pwede bang lemon at cherry na lang?

At the Mansion House, Baguio City
First time kong mag-stay overnight sa Mansion House

Marami raw ghosts dito. Totoo ba, Marty?

Morning Walk at the Wright Park

Having Strawberry-Flavored Taho for Breakfast

Wright Park: Horseback Riding Area

Ipahiram ko kaya ang bolero ko sa kabayong may pink na hair?

Para japorms!

Baguio Botanical Garden

Haba'y nasahan na hang mga higorot?

Anapin nyo, dalihan nyu!

1st Class Cadet Entoma

Obot: Adel, nilalamig ka ba?

Nice: Hindi, kinikilig lang sya!

Adel: Ahihihihi...

PMA Rope Course Training Area

Hanging Bridge

Superfriends: Walang Iwanan, Walang Laglagan

PMA Rope Course Training Area
Thank you, Obot, for the photo op! Love you!
Lunch @ Shakeys-SM Baguio
with my high school bestfriend, Cathy
After seven years, ngayon lang ulit kami nagkita...

My Kumareng Cathy and Inaanak, Cyrhelle
Sison, Pangasinan
It's feels good to see them again...

Why I keep coming back to Baguio? It is simply because I so so so love Baguio! I have been here when I was 5, 10, 15, 16 and now, when I am 25. And the tourist destinations it offers are really memorable for me. The Wright Park, Burnham Park, Mines View Park, Botanical Garden, Session Road, Baguio Cathedral, Teachers' Camp, the PMA and the marketplace are full of memories shared with Mom, some elementary buddies and high school friends. The pine trees, strawberries, gardens full of flowers, ornamental plants, zigzags, ukay-ukays, and the cold climate give me a feeling of familiarity, peace and belongingness.

Moreover, the excitement it brings to me when my colleagues start to tell stories about playful ghosts, disturbed spirits, unseen but felt elemental bodies in this mysterious locality, is such a great feeling! I am too old to believe in such supernatural thoughts and experiences, I know, but hey! I am honest-to-goodness a believer of these things! Dare not joke on me about it or else, I'll punch you right between your eyes!

What's added now is the sudden influx of Koreans in the City of Pines. As what my bestfriend Cathy said, "KOREAN INVASION!" Well, let's just consider their contribution to Baguio City's socio-economic prosperity. And thank them, any way.

Basta, love ko ang Baguio and I won't get tired of coming back to the country's Summer Capital. I know, Baguio has more secrets to offer that I just have to explore and discover! Baguio, till next time.

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Techie Me

We are living in the 21st century when new technologies are born. I have been into acquiring the latest computer-related and electronic gadgets since I started working. My ownership of various mobile phones, computers and cameras is a proof of my techy nature. However, I cannot help it - I am still longing for more, I am still looking for better gadgets.

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My main cellular phone, a Nokia 6680, was bought from a friend, meaning it was a second hand unit. But because I know the former owner so well - that he is such a caring and loving techy person - I never had to think twice. Now I am using it for my Smart connection. My Philips S660, on the other hand, is my Sun Cellular phone. I love its MP3 feature so I do not have to buy an IPOD, MP3 or MP4 gadget. I have downloaded numbers of songs that I always play whenever I go senti or feeling rocky-and-rolly. Do you see my PDA? It's a Palm TX actually. What I love in it is its e-book reader! And of course, the sozy-looking stylus! Ooops, I almost forgot, I also enjoy its wi-fi feature... I can blog wherever I go - as long as there is internet connection! In fact, two other friends own one, too. Then there goes my favorite buddy - my desktop computer in the office. Even though it is not my personal PC (because it is accounted to the office), I am in front of it 8 hours a weekday - that makes it my best officemate. And if not with it, I could have not blog at all. Next is my lappy toppy (yes, that's the name I gave to the item. sounds cute, eh?). I bought it from a www.sulit.com.ph member for only P10,000. It performs well, and it amazes me every single minute I use it. And oh, my flash drive, Data Traveler 1G. It's very portable and useful. Long live the one who invented it! My Mikrotek DVCam? I seldom use it because I always have my camphone with me. Daddy bought it and though I like to sell it, I can't. This gadget is a souvenir of his retirement claims. This has sentimental value indeed!

Now I am currently in the mood of upgrading. I am planning to swap my PDA + Nokia 6680 for an Nokia N95 or HTC TyTN II. I truly want a PDA phone! And I am going to put that wish into a reality! But the question is when and how?

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What a Long Weekend!

-=I'M NOW A CERTIFIED YOGI=-
I attended my first ever Yoga class! They say it cleanses the mind, body and soul. That is why i highly recommend it to myself [and to you, guys]. Yeba! Yeba! Some of you may ask where, it is located in Sikatuna Village, Quezon City. Are you interested? You can always leave a comment on this post for more information.

-=MGA LAKWATSERANG WALANG PERA=-

Adel and I went window shopping and mall hopping till our feet and joints ached. TriNoma and SM North were our location. We also had our Ukay-ukay adventure in North EDSA. I bought a pair of shorts and blue silky leggings. Hurray!

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-=NINANG NICE AGAIN[?]=-

I attended my officemate's son, Baby JR's baptismal. Jerick Rowell G. Umali is my 21st Godchild. Ang dami na no? Ayos yan, magtatago na ako sa pasko! Hehehe!

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-=LA VISITA A LA CASA DE RODRIGUEZ=-

We (Jenn and I) went to Tita Louie's house in Pacita, San Pedro, Laguna. Nakikain ng ice cream! Butterscotch, yum-yum! Si Tita Louie 'yung naka-"Mr. Pogi" gesture sa piktyur. Cute nya noh?

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Monday, morning jog from 5am-7:30am around the village and along the highway with one of my bestfriends, Kathrina. Then, nag-breakfast kami sa isang burger stand sa kanto ng Gen. Mariano Alvarez, Cavite. Footlong sa kanya; coffee and tuna sandwich lang sakin --- DIET. Waaaahhh! Sob!

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Nag-general cleaning ako ng study area ko. This is my bookshelf. Mukhang umaliwalas ba? Oo naman, di ba?

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This is my PC corner naman. Shempre, bakit may mga green drums sa loob ng room ko? Tanggalin nga yan! Ayan, tingnan nyo na 'yung "After". Better to look at na ba?

I made sure that this 3-day holiday would be spent wisely and productively. I was glad I did it successfully by pampering myself, promoting a healthy and clean living, spending money sensibly, beginning to play a significant role in a child's life, bonding with friends and helping out in household chores. What a long, productive weekend!

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Nitpicker Who?

I have too many pending office works to finish, but here I am... blogging. I am not in the mood to write referrals or draft Presidential messages. I am definitely in a bad mood. How could some friends betray my trust?

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In view of this, I have encountered a new word while reading through the pages of my e-book, "The Diary of a Young Girl" written by Anne Frank.

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Nitpicker.

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According to dictionary.com, a nitpicker is someone who makes small and unjustified criticisms; or someone who is concerned with or habitually finds fault with insignificant details.

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What a perfect word to describe such bums!

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To end this hodgepodge of emotions and misunderstandings, I would end this post by saying:

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"Being backstabbed by trusted friends is like piercing me like arrows from a tightly strung bow, which are nearly impossible to pull from my body. It hurts."

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On Corruption

The Office of the Ombudsman has formed a new campaign against corruption dubbed as the "National Anti-Corruption Program of Action (NACPA)." It was launched last Friday, August 17, at the University of the Philippines-Bahay ng Alumni. Ombudsman Merceditas Gutierrez was there to lead the corruption, as well as DENR Secretary Lito L. Atienza.

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Another sikat in my list. Mabuhay ka, Mayor!

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Corruption is one of the Big Cs in our society. Cancer as we may consider it, we still have the hopeful chance to be free from this worsening disease - victimizing many Filipinos, killing morality and poisoning national solidarity. If only we could eliminate corruption with just a wave of a wand or a wink of an eye. But that's the sad part, we can't. All we can do is act together, one step at a time, little by little.

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I am not speaking as a government employee, but as a concerned citizen. Let's not blame the government alone for all these craps. Instead, let's help our country recuperate from the wounds of the past, and move on. Nothing will happen if we'll live in resenting and blaming. Learn to forgive, all of us are imperfect anyways.

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We are all corrupt, even in our smallest deed. Let us start in ourselves. There's only one word for us to put into action: HONESTY. Why? Simply because it is the best policy.

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Enjoying our PDAs in this WI-FIed zone of UP Diliman. Is this also a form of corruption? Sorry.

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Sikat Na Ba Ako?

Marami sa mga kaibigan ko na nagba-blag din ang nagsasabing sikat na daw ako sa mundo ng blag. Hindi ako naniniwala kasi limitado lang ang grupo ng mga kaibigang blogero at blogera ko. At ang ibang dumadalaw naman dito ay naliligaw lang. Ayaw ko naman talaga maging sikat. Bakit? Kasi unang-una sa lahat, hindi naman pagiging popular ang layunin ng blog ko. Ginawa ko ang blag na ito dahil gusto kong magkaroon ng dokumentaryo tungkol sa mga nangyayari sa buhay ko. Pangalawa, upang magkaroon pa ako ng mas maraming kaibigan, kahit man lang sa pamamagitan ng kompyuter at makabagong teknolohiya (syempre, kasunod na dun ang mga aybol at pakikipagkita nang personal sa mga ka-blag). At huli, ayoko mabigo. Kapag kasi ang layunin mo sa pagkakaroon ng blag ay maging sikat, mabibigo ka lang pag hindi natupad yun. Hayyy... parang pagsali sa isang paligsahan, pag umasa ka na mananalo ka pero natalo ka, nakakalungkot... nakakabigo...

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Gayunpaman, kahit di ako maging sikat, ayos lang sa akin. Simpleng tao lang naman ako. Masaya na sa pagiging karaniwang Pinay blogera. Pero alam nyo ba na may isang bagay na nakakapagpasaya sa akin paminsan-minsan? Ano yun? Nakakahiya man pero mahilig kasi ako sa magpakuha ng litrato kasama ang mga sikat na tao. Pakiramdam ko kasi nagiging parte rin ako ng mundong ginagalawan nila.

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Ito ang ilan sa mga larawang kuha ko kasama ang mga tanyag sa kani-kanilang larangan. (Clockwise please)

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Si Sen. Robert Jaworski, ang The Living Legend, ng Tanduay at Ginebra. Pareho kami ng paboritong numero, 7. Nakita ko siya sa senado nung nasa kolehiyo pa ako. Sabi ng propesor ko, manood daw kami ng plenary session. Waaah! 1/4 lang ng kamay nya ang kamay ko. Si Sec. Mike Defensor naman nasalubong ko lang sa palasyo nung inutusan ako ng boss ko na umattend ng meeting on behalf of her. Ang bait nya, malapit na kasi eleksyon nun. Hehehe! Si Audrey Zubiri, asawa ni Migs. Nakasama ko sya nung National Women's Month sa Rizal Memorial Complex. Siyempre naka-green sya, kampanya na kasi eh. Si Spokesperson Ignacio Bunye, necktie kung necktie! Nung una ko siyang makita, sa Palasyo. Papakuha na din sana ako picture nung time na yun kaya lang lowbat ang camphone ko. Buti na lang, nung dumalaw si Pacman kay Madame President, naki-autograph sya kay Manny Pacquiao, ayun... Huli ka!

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Si Sheryl Cosim ng ABS-CBN News Team. Oo na, aminado na ako. Mas flawless siya kesa sa akin. Si PDA Grand Star Winner Yeng Constantino naman yang kumakanta. Hindi ako makalapit sa kanya. Kasikatan niya pa kasi yan. Ang dami niyang bodyguards in fairness! Mas marami pa kaysa kay Jolens. Si Tuesday Vargas, ang pinakamagaling na comedienne para sa akin. Idol!!! Galing nyan magpatawa saka may sense talaga! Mukha nga lang siyang may sakit dyan sa kuha namin. Hindi yata nya matanggap na mas pretty ako. Hahahaha!

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Sarah Geronimo, the Pop Princess, is such a humble girl. Aba'y kabait na bata eh! Kaya siguro siya binibiyaan ng Panginoon kasi nakatapak pa rin ang paa nya sa lupa sa kabila ng pagiging sikat nya. Si Faith Cuneta naman, ok-ok lang. Sikat ba siya? Joke! Hoy, mga fans, si Jolina Magdangal oh! Mukhang ang saya-saya nya noh? Violet kung violet ang drama nya dyan. Si Mrs. Helen Gamboa naman, maganda pa rin sa kabila ng nakaraang mga taon. Isa lang masasabi ko: isa siyang certified mestiza.

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Si Robin Padilla. Kailangan pa bang imemorize yan? Shempre, panalo pa rin ang kakisigan ng bad boy na ito. Si Andrew E. naka-peace sign! Hehehe! Nakahanap na ako ng panget! Si Boxing Hero Manny "PacMan" Pacquiao naman ay napaka-cute. Basta napapatibok nya ang puso ko sa tuwing makikita ko siya dito sa Malacañang. Pangatlong beses ko na sya nayayakap este nakakamayan pala... *shy*. At ang naka-red, si Ms. Pilita Corales. Katatapos nya lang bumirit ng kanta kaya dinumog sya ng mga kaopisina ko para magpa-piktyur. Buti na lang nakasingit ako. Para kaming Biolink commercial no? Before and After.

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The Company. Sina Teacher Sweet, Teacher Annie at Teacher Moi ng Pinoy Dream Academy. Pasado na ba ako para mapabilang sa susunod na batch of PDA Scholars? Oo daw, sabi nila. Pero mas bagay yata kung sa mismong The Company na lang ako mapabilang. We look good together naman di ba? Sana magka-concert na kami, lip sing lang ako, for sure.

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3rd anniversary ng kanyang administrasyon kaya dumalaw si H.E. Gloria Macapagal-Arroyo sa aming opisina. Pasensya na malabo ang kuha, jurassic pa kasi ang mga camera noon.

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Ilan lamang ang mga iyan sa mga "sikat" na nakasama ko. Sila lang ang sikat. Ako, sa tingin ko, ay nananatili pa ring karaniwang mamamayan. Pero kahit na! Sikat man o hindi, ang mahalaga masaya ako sa buhay ko. Sana kayo rin...

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Missing My Superfriend!

As what I've written before about the government rationalization and promotion thingies, I expected changes that would definitely have a great impact on my life. And now what? I'm missing my superfriend, Edel, who transferred to another office for financial advancement and career growth.

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I visited her blog and read on her latest post about "The Joys of Malling" and kind of got emotionally sentimental because of it. We are shopping buddies since college, became officemates in Malacañang and roommates for more than a year. Now she's a building away. Sigh. I really, really miss my Super-f!

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First Date Rules

I don't have a date, or an eyeball meet up. I just can't help but smile whenever I remember an article I have read from the blog of Bakla Ako, May Reklamo?. It's about rules to follow during and after your first date, and maybe I can apply this guide if (and only if) I'm going to meet someone for the first time.

The formula is set to a simpler term so that it would be easy to remember. We just have to memorize the code. The formula goes like NS + vowel = rule. So, here it goes:

Rule No. 1: NS+A = No Strings Attached. Of course, it is your very first. Never ever think that after this date he/she will come to you and ask you for a commitment. Unless, you're too desperate to be in a relationship.
Rule No. 2: NS+E = No Silly Expectations. So what do you expect? Na he/she likes you too? That he/she would call you the next day? That he/she would invite you again for dinner or a movie? Don't expect too much, or you'll be disappointed. Asa pa u!
Rule No. 3: NS+I = No Sex Involved. Oh my! Sayang naman... Joke! Ano ba? It's not ethical to have sex with someone you don't love di ba? Huwag ninyong sabihing na-love at first sight kayo? Kalokohan. And even if, it's improper to do this on your first date. Then what? Di na sya magpapakita sa iyo kahit kailan dahil nakuha na nya ang pinakamimithi nya.
Rule No. 4: NS+O = No Sugar-coated Over-impressing. Don't be too open about yourself, and don't try to impress him/her with exaggeration and lies. Remember, being too proud is a turn-off and there are some people who loves mystery.
Rule No. 5: NS+U = No Self Underselling. Kabaliktaran naman ito ng NSO. On your first date, we tend to get a little shy to open up and share things with the other. However, sometimes we're afraid that he/she might not accept some things beyond his understanding and experience. But if you think that it's ok to talk about these, then why keep it to yourself? Hello? Kaya ka nga nakipagdate di ba, para magkaroon ng bagong friends or acquaintances? So, why lock up yourself in the closet? Magpakatotoo ka lang. Ayos na yon!

These are the five rules on dating for the first time. This article aims to serve as a guide for you to follow on your special day with a new guy/girl. Well... most of which I interpreted on my own and perhaps you're more experienced and informed regarding this concern. What do you think? Feel free to share your insights in the comment section.

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Adopt-A-Kitten Project

I love animals, a pet lover in other words. Actually, our house is a zoo, with lovebirds, goldfishes, cats, a dog and a guinea pig. And I'm still planning to have other species of birds, rodents and mammals to take care of.

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Last night, when I arrived home, Mom told me that we have a new kitten, a strayed white-turned-to-gray pityful kitten. Meet Alaska.

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I named here "Alaska," I hope you already know why.

As you can see, it is too hungry to smile for a shot. Let's see for its transformation in the mere future. Welcome to the family, Alaska!

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Kelan Ka Huling Nadapa?

Sequel ito ng luma kong artikulong pinamagatang "Kailan Ka Huling Nakakita ng Tutubi?" Matagal-tagal na akong hindi nakakita ng tutubi, at matagal na rin mula nang ako ay huling madapa. Siguro mga grade five ako noon, habang naglalaro ng patintero sa Kalye Nieto sa Paco, Maynila.

Ngayon, ang nakakatawa ay sa edad na 25, nadapa pa rin ako. Kahapon kasi ng madaling araw, mga 4:45a.m, nasa kanto na ako ng village namin nang maalala kong may nakalimutan ako sa bahay. Binalikan ko at sa takot kong maiwan ng shuttle ay tumakbo ako. Palusong ang kalye namin at madilim pa kaya hindi ko napansing may mataas na hump pala. Na-out of balance ako! As in, dapang-dapa na parang nanghuhuli ng palaka sa tubigan. Plakda yata ang perpektong salita para doon eh. At dahil mabilis ang reflex ko, naiangat ko nang hindi sinasadya ang mukha ko, paraan siguro iyon para maprotekatahan ito at huwag magasgasan. Buti na lang tuhod, siko, braso at palad lang ang injury ko (Mabuti pa pala yon?) At ang mga sumunod na pangyayari ay ito:

Kapitbahay naming principal: Oh, Nice, ano nangyari sa iyo? Tulog ka pa?

Ako: Araaayy... ang sakit... (Sabay pagpag ng tuhod at nagkunwaring walang nangyari)

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Mommy ko (nakatalikod pala sya kaya di nya nakita, napalingon na lang sya nung may lumagabog): Oh, anak, ano nangyari sa iyo? Kasi tumakbo-takbo ka pa! Alam mo naman na may humps dun, di ka nag-iingat!

Ako (nangingiti lang, sabi ko sa isip ko): Itong si Mommy, nadapa na nga ako't lahat, nanermon pa!

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Pemy na pinsan ko: Ate Nice, ano nangyari sa iyo? Nadapa ka ba?

Ako: Nagtanong ka pa!

Pemy: Kaya pala may narinig akong bumagsak. Tapos yung mga aso ng kapitbahay nabulabog. Kaya pala sila nagtahulan. (Naghahagalpakan na sila ni Mommy habang pinapahiran ko ng Betadine ang mga gasgas at sugat ko)

Ako: Tawa pa kayo! Hmpt! Araaayy... Hapdi... (Natawa na rin ako sa sarili ko)

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Lalo akong natuwa nang pagdating sa opisina, ibinalita sa akin ng isa kong kaopisina na nadapa din si Kgg. John Howard na kasalukuyang Prime Minister ng bansang Australia. Papunta siya nung July 24 sa isang tv station upang maging panauhin sa isang talk show kung saan ang paksang tatalakayin ay "Is Mr. Howard too old for the job?" Nalalapit na kasi ang halalan para sa bagong Australian Prime Minister at isa siya sa mga kandidato kung saan makakalaban din niya sa posisyon ay mas bata, si Mr. Kevin Rudd.

Sa tingin ko, hindi mananalo si John Howard dahil sa pagkakadapa niya. Sabi naman kasi eh, mag-arthro.

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Masakit pa rin ang mga kasu-kasuan ko hanggang ngayon. Naka-ilang inom na rin ako ng Alaxan. Naaalala ko pa rin ang nakakatawa ngunit masakit na pangyayaring iyon.

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Kaso lang, iniisip ko na lang: kung ang isang prime minister nga na ginagalang ng madla ay nadadapa, ako pa kaya? Ikaw, kelan ka huling nadapa? Kwento ka naman...

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Top 10 Emerging Influential Blogs in 2007

I read just now that Ms. Janette Toral's Top 10 Emerging Influential Blogs in 2007 writing project is about to close come July 28. I have to beat the deadline, I have to choose 10 (or less) emerging blogs that have a great impact on me. So, now I'm posting my list, not only for the reason that I want that $100, but also because this is one way to give due recognition to co-bloggers who help me cope with today's life's challenges; through their blogs on issues of personal and social interest, they have helped and continuously help me make informed, responsible and wise choices and advocacies.

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Enough with the drama. Here's my list.

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1. Edelweiza - I loved to vote for you, Superfriend, but you were an early blogger. 2005 tayo eh!

2. After Three Years - Blog of a young girl who has insightful views about everything. The owner of this blog is my officemate and friend.

3. The Vegan Prince - Ang Hari ng Negros 2006! Mark Xander Fabillar's blog. One of the handsomest and most intelligent bloggers in my community. Ang cute ng hamsters nya!

4. Poch Ang Ina Mo - Her name is Poch and she's mom to Rama. An old friend from college once said to her: 'Pag nagkaanak ka, sasabihin ko sa kanya, Poch Ang Ina Mo!'

5. Bianca Gonzales - Beauty and brains that she is, I admire her so much. Kahit 2003 ka pa umpisa nagblog, one of the bests ka pa rin for me.

6. Si Raul, Oh! - He describes himself as "A Force of Nature."

7. Witness Lane - Migs Bassig's journal. I love his way of writing, very intellectual and reflective. But I can see na April 2006 sya umpisa nagblog. Muntik na! Still, I nominate him.

8. Sorrow and Bliss - Mr. Panda's blog. Sorry, John. You created your blog at Feb 2006, disqualifying you in this project. However, you're still in my top ten list.

9. Greenpinoy - A daily hop on his greenpinoy's blog keeps nice_and_smiling_girl happy and gay.

10. Pinoyblogero.com - informative blog on blogging itself. May free RSS Feed Buttons pa from Karlo!

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Oopps! Since 4 of the 10 nominees are disqualified because their blogs were created before August 2006, I am adding four more bloggers to complete my list:

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1. The Philosophical Bastard - Sinong blogger ang di nakakakilala sa kanya??? Two thumbs up for Paolo Mendoza!

5. Adventures of a Lionheart - Richard Paglicawan is "Proud to be a Mangyan Blogger!"

7. Islander in the City - Reo Andarino's blog. An Islander in the City? Relevant and timely topics here.

8. Redlan's Web of Arts - His blog is forever a month old. Hehehe! Happy bloganniv on the 30th.

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These are my choices. There are more influential blogs on my list. Tell me you need 50, and I have something to submit. Good luck to all the nominees. God bless the blogging community!

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Have You Listened to the SONA?

You should have listened to PGMA's speech yesterday. She deserves to be heard. It doesn't matter if you're on the administration or opposition side, what's important is your open-mindedness, understanding and cooperation.

To the Pros, this is the moment you've been waiting for. Don't just help yourself, help the President. It is only through unity and altruism that we can put our national goals into reality. To the Cons, this is an opportune time for your voice to be heard: criticize her, oppose her, hate her. But please, don't just talk, do your part. Be a good Filipino - someone who acts responsibly and thinks of, not only himself, but others as well.

How about you? Do you have something to share? How about a congratulatory message, a suggestion, a criticism or, let's say, a violent reaction on what she said? The table is now open for your insights.

Or maybe, you can't comment because you're not updated? If you want a copy of the full edition of the SONA, I have it. Just send a comment on this post to let me know. Thanks!

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Alfred Vargas in the House

Hey hey hey! Have you ever dreamed of this super sexy man? Yes, this is Alfred Vargas! Gosh, the butt! *deep breath* (Hahaha! Do I sound like a maniac? Yum-yum!)

Well, sorry, girls... sorry, gays. He's mine now. Isn't it a great idea that we look good together? Yeba! Yeba!

But... I want to make it clear. LJ, huwag ka magselos. Hindi kami, we're just friends. Lol.

Isa lang masasabi ko: ang ganda ng katawan nya EVER. Adonis of the 21st century!!!

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A Misguided Street Child

The OP Shuttle Service is my daily mode of transportation. I was on board to Carmona, Cavite yesterday. While the bus was at stop along Quirino Highway, in front of Jacinto Zamora Elementary School in Pandacan, a street kid threw a haphazardly eaten corn against that side of the bus proudly saying "Office of the President."

I ignored him, justifying that he was only a kid. But hey! He confidently did it again, right through the very same spot.

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It reminded me of the popular Tagalog slogan, "Kung Ano Ang Ginagawa ng Matanda Ay Tama sa Paningin ng Bata". Maybe his parents are anti-Gloria, or perhaps his neighbors are pro-Erap. Maybe he sees what the anti-administration activists do whenever they rally at Mendiola or EDSA, or perhaps he watches politicians from the opposition group vulgarly insulting the President on tv.

I have nothing against the opposition. I just thought of myself when I was still a child. I never did something bad against older people, especially those who are well-respected in their own fields of endeavor. My parents brought me up properly, and throwing stuffs against someone or something is a big no-no. If only I could appear to the boy, I would tap his shoulder and tell him, "Bata, bad 'yun. Huwag mo nang uulitin ha?"

I realized how lucky I am to have a good family: a mother to guide and teach me the right conduct, and a father to discipline me when I misbehave. At the same time, I felt bad and sad for this young boy because he was not taught good manners by his family. Or does he have one?

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Dear God, please take good care of this young boy and guide him with Your light. I also pray that today's younger generations will learn to give respect, not only to PGMA, but to everyone who deserves it.

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